Everything Changes When You Understand This

Amar Pandit , CFA , CFP

Amar Pandit

A respected entrepreneur with 25+ years of Experience, Amar Pandit is the Founder of several companies that are making a Happy difference in the lives of people. He is currently the Founder of Happyness Factory, a world-class online investment & goal-based financial planning platform through which he aims to help every Indian family save and invest wisely. He is very passionate about spreading financial literacy and is the author of 4 bestselling books (+ 2 more to release in 2020), 8 Sketch Books, Board Game and 700 + columns.

I recently met a gentleman from Bengaluru.

Soft spoken. Humble. Decent.

He ran a sizable mutual fund distribution practice and had been in the business for several decades.

We sat down to discuss his future and his idea of selling his business.

As we began the conversation, I asked him a very simple question.
What do you want from this sale?”

He paused.
He thought for a moment.

Then he quietly said, “I don’t know. You tell me.”

I was not surprised.
I hear this from many financial professionals who want to sell or transition their business.

They know they want to exit, or slow down, or secure their future, but they have no clarity on what they expect from the sale.

Without clarity, everything becomes vague.
And when everything is vague, every offer feels inadequate.

I told him something that I believe every financial professional must listen to carefully.

“Please find out what you want. Before you sell anything, especially something as important as your life’s work, you need to know its value and your own expectations.”

Selling a business is not like selling a used car.
It is more like selling your home.

Your home holds emotion, memories, identity and history.
You would never sell your home without knowing how much it is worth, what the market looks like, and what you need from the sale.

Why would you then sell your business, which may be even more valuable than your home, without clarity?

It makes no sense.

But this is exactly what many financial professionals do.

They wait till the last moment.
They assume that because they earned a certain amount for many years, they can always earn the same forever.
They believe that another five years of work equals the valuation of their business.

This is a dangerous assumption.

The gentleman I met also said something I hear very often.
If I work for another five years, I will make the same amount. So why sell now?”
This mindset is common.

It feels logical on the surface, but it hides a deeper problem.
People forget that time is not guaranteed.
Health is not guaranteed.
Energy is not guaranteed.

And client continuity is definitely not guaranteed.

I know of MFDs who have lost their biggest and best clients. And I am sure you know them too.

When you say you will earn the same for the next five years, you are assuming that your clients will stay, your health will remain strong, your motivation will remain intact and nothing unexpected will happen.

But life rarely works according to assumptions.

The real question is not “What will happen if I work for five more years”
The real question is, “What will happen if I cannot”

This is why clarity is everything.

Clarity of purpose.
Clarity of value.
Clarity of expectations.
Clarity of what you want in life after your business.

Without clarity, the conversation becomes emotional and unrealistic.

If you do not know what you want, even the best offer will feel low.
If you have no clarity on value, the negotiation becomes directionless.
If you have no clarity on your own goals, the entire process becomes stressful.

As financial professionals, we expect clients to think clearly.

When a client comes to you saying they want to redeem all investments without a reason, you do not immediately process it.

You ask questions.
You try to understand their fears.
You help them clarify their thinking.
You guide them through the emotional fog.

But when it comes to their own business, many financial professionals fail to apply the same discipline.

They avoid valuing their own business because they worry the number may be lower than they expected.

They avoid clarity because clarity demands honesty.
And honesty forces you to confront your future.

But here is the truth that every MFD must understand.

Your business is an asset.
Not a hobby.
Not a side income.
Not an accidental creation.

It is an asset with value, just like equity, real estate or gold.
And just like any other asset, you must know it’s worth before you plan your next chapter.

The moment you know the value, everything changes.

Your decisions become sharper.
Your expectations become realistic.
Your conversations become informed.
Your planning becomes grounded.
Your confidence grows.
And your future becomes clearer.

This clarity helps you understand what you actually want.

Do you want liquidity?
Do you want continuity?
Do you want freedom from day to day operations?
Do you want someone to carry your legacy forward?
Do you want to secure your family?
Do you want to focus only on clients and not on administration?
Do you want to protect your clients from disruption?
Do you want a higher valuation or a stable recurring income?

When you list these out, you begin to see the truth.

You are not selling just to sell.
You are selling for a reason.

And when the reason becomes clear, the path becomes clear too.

The gentleman from Bengaluru had never thought about any of this.

He only knew that he felt tired.
He felt uncertain.
He felt that he could not continue alone.

But he had not articulated what he wanted instead.

I told him with full respect, “Sir, without clarity, you will undervalue your business or overvalue it. You will either accept less or expect the impossible. And either way, you will not be satisfied.

Selling a business without clarity is like travelling without a destination.

Every route feels wrong.
Every cost feels unfair.
Every option feels confusing.

Once he understood this, he realized the importance of finding out the true valuation of his business and the true intention behind his decision.

It was a turning point in the conversation.

Because the moment he admitted he did not know what he wanted, he opened the door to discovering it.

Many financial professionals make the same mistake.

They avoid reflection.
They avoid planning.
They avoid clarity.

And because of that, they get stuck in hesitation and confusion.

If you are thinking about your future, do not start with offers.
Do not start with numbers.

Start with yourself.
Start with clarity.
Start with understanding what you truly want.

You owe it to your business.
You owe it to your family.
And most importantly, you owe it to your clients.

Because your clients depend on you.
And if you do not plan your future, their future is at risk too.

Your 2026 planning does not begin with goals.
It begins with valuation.
It begins with clarity.
It begins with asking yourself the same question you ask your clients.

“What is the value of my biggest asset, and what do I want from it?”
The day you answer this truthfully is the day your next chapter begins.